Who are you if you weren’t your job, your age, or your background?
If I had to introduce myself — at work, on a date, or while meeting a new friend — without relying on any of the usual labels, what would I say?
This week, I found myself reflecting on something I came across — a conversation about who we are beyond the tags and labels we carry. Axel Schura and Coralia Glavas called these “artificial markers,” and that phrase stayed with me.
It also connected to a discussion I had earlier in the week, where I challenged the idea of identity tied to achievement or status. I asked myself: Who would I be if I didn’t define myself by what I do?
No job titles
No “what I do for a living”
No age
No nationality or ethnicity
No place I grew up
No religion
It took me a moment to answer honestly. Who am I really, without all of that?
For most of my life, I’ve introduced myself through the lens of my career, my accomplishments, or my cultural background — a Latina who has been living in Canada for over a decade. Those were the anchors I used to define myself.
But when I removed all those markers, the answer surprised me.
What makes me me
- Emotionally perceptive 🧠
- Someone who cares deeply ❤️
- Joyful watching hummingbirds 🐦
- Loves chiropractor ASMR 🎧
- Fulfilled around friends and family 👨👩👧👦
- Favourite animals: seals and mini pigs 🦭🐖
- Recharges near water — ocean, lakes, or rivers 🌊
- Passionate about holistic wellbeing 🌱
A gentle reflection for you:
Who are you, beyond the labels?
You don’t have to share it — even holding the answer quietly for yourself can be powerful.
If this resonated, feel free to save it for later or pass it along to someone who might appreciate it today.
— The Assertive Coach
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